When You Can’t Move On From Someone Who Hurt You

Do you really want to go back to the person who has hurt you and left you? Do you really want to stay in a relationship that is making you feel unworthy? 

Sometimes, we are blinded by the overwhelming feeling that we have for someone that makes us overlook our current reality. We tend to create a character of the person we love in our mind even though we know that they are not really like that.

I was supposed have this article entitled, “When You Can’t Move On” But I have added the lines -From Someone Who Hurt You. The reason why is because there are two reasons why people can’t move on. First, it is because the person has been deeply hurt. And the second is because the person has hurt someone so much and they can’t find a way to remove the guilt out of their heart. Both are actually hard, but it is harder to move on when you are the one who is carrying the guilt. You might have been hurt in the past but staying stuck on it won’t heal you. You can’t expect your wounds to heal if you are not willing to have it mended. You can’t expect your wounds to heal if you are expecting that it can be fixed by the person who hurt you. 

Physically, if we get hurt from something, we turn away and we try not to get close to that thing again. This is how we should respond emotionally too. But this is really hard and I am not an exemption. I know how hard it is. But as a life’s lesson, we’ll keep on experiencing the same thing over and over again until we learn from it. Moving on is not really easy but if you have been crying for so many times more than being happy, then you have to ask yourself, do you want to be stuck in the past or the present moment when the only possibility is that you will get hurt and cry? Or do you want to move on and let go of your pain and welcome the hundred possibilities in life? 

There is no guarantee that if you move on and let go, you will never get hurt again. But there is a guarantee that if you move on, there will be a hundred possibilities of being happy and free. You may gey hurt for one more time, but at least you have already taken the first step in moving on, you can stand up, move forward and keep on going with the hundred possibilities.

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